Tuthmosis is a Columnist-at-Large at Return of Kings. You can follow him on Twitter. The only reason radical feminism has managed to achieve such an influential and mainstream position in Western society is through the vital reinforcements provided by turn-coat gender traitors who willfully cannibalize other men to please their female overlords. This is the male feminist. These are men whose entire personas are predicated on keeping others from offending their female bosses. The great irony—and secret—is that they have the same ends as guys who learn game: The mass consumption of soy products—a natural source of estrogen—is another likely culprit. Condescending, snarky girl-tone and eye-rolling. Rather than disagree with an argument on its merits, they sigh through it like Al Gore at a presidential debate. To make matters worse, he artificially laces his speech with profanity, which rather than toughness, comes off like a moody girl cussing at her boyfriend.
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And it just turns out white men have a leverage in this game. For virtually all races, non-white women are the most receptive to white men usually followed or prefaced by men of their own race. We all know that. Most girls these days becomes victims of this game at some point in their life.
Goldilocks from Fables seems to be this, but she’s really cynically using her rhetoric as a tool to manipulate the people around her.
Dec 1, Getty I used to get so excited when a guy called himself a feminist. For a long time I viewed male feminists as inherently good guys because so much of the world still thinks “feminist” is a dirty word. It was a relief to find a guy who didn’t think feminists were women to steer clear of. It was nothing, right? Women loved him because it was refreshing to see a porn star making love to women instead of just jackhammering away.
And being hurt by a male feminist seemed to hurt more than it would’ve if the men had never claimed to be feminists, because weren’t they supposed to be the good guys? I dated one such man for a thankfully brief period of time. His bedroom was lined with “Thank you for your consistent donations” Planned Parenthood letters, we’d speak at length about our shared love of bell hooks and hatred of hacky sexist garbage jokes we’d see guys tell at my comedy shows.
He’d call out people who would tell me I “wasn’t like other girls,” realizing the sexism in that, the implication that other girls are terrible.
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Although they were out for the blood of anybody who was not an Amazon, it could be told in all seriousness that men had it worse. As in “secret experimentation camps created without Diana’s knowledge because they were too horrible even for her ” worse, in Flashpoint. In a move that borders on the clever, Wondy’s archenemies are sometimes portrayed this way.
She also recognizes the unfairness of her plight and finds a way out of it, outwitting her “mother,” who is in fact her kidnapper, to venture to the outside world.
Comment Tony December 11, , 7: You are right on with your analysis of the things that men over 40 encounter in the dating scene. I especially would like to piggyback on the discussions about women my age having such an in-depth, extensive checklist when it comes to finding Mr. I admire women and adore the loving nature that they bring to a relationship.
Of course, I have children and issues. My happily ever after just did not survive the Great Recession along with the instant gratification endulgences of our current social psyche.
Ranked Disney Princesses From Least To Most Feminist
Mar 26, Instagram 1. There might be a movie that you really love that you never noticed was super-crazy sexist, and you need to at least be open to hearing her explain why it is and looking at it from another perspective. I dated a guy who hated when I would do this and you will never guess how quickly I dumped him because haha no.
However, both characters have changed a bit where they became heroes of the present and showed romantic interest in men.
I just saw Brave, and it got me thinking about the grand tradition of Disney princesses. Brave is a Pixar movie, and its heroine, Merida, is a fairy-tale feminist. Disney princesses for the most part, are not. Most need to be rescued by their male love interests; almost all the Disney Princess movies end in marriage or engagement. But that doesn’t mean they’re all equally regressive.
There’s actually a wide range, from appalling to not half bad. Now, I know ranking anything by perceived feminism is problematic, as your professor might put it, but go with me for the sake of discussion. And lest we get carried away, rules: From least to most feminist, your Disney Princesses: Aurora, Sleeping Beauty The early Disney films were all strange fables with beautiful scenery and women who made no choices for themselves; Sleeping Beauty is the apex of these.
Aurora has no interesting qualities; she’s pretty, demure, and generally kind, in the way princesses are i. Aurora’s naivete leads her straight into a trap laid by Maleficent, and she promptly falls asleep for the rest of the film, until a man shows up to wake her up and not in a “raised consciousness” kind of way. Snow White, Snow White Yeah, about all that sleeping… well, Snow White also conveniently falls asleep for much of this film, and waits to be rescued by a Charming but otherwise featureless prince.
Snow White is a weirder movie than Sleeping Beauty, but though Snow herself is a kind of quirky beauty, with the bobbed black hair and all, she doesn’t demonstrate a lot of agency or courage.
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Not to be confused with males who are nice in general, Nice Guys have been criticized on the internet by both males and females alike for being hypocrites or even misogynists potentially being driven by an ulterior motive, mainly in anticipation of a relationship or sexual favors in return, and are often mocked as the first citizens of the friend zone. Origin In early , the website Heartless Bitches International published several pieces on the concept of the Nice Guy.
Spread Definitions and explanations for Nice Guys can be found on various websites and feminist blogs.
Origin In early , the website Heartless Bitches International published several pieces on the concept of the Nice Guy.
See More As a child of the Internet and confirmed weirdo, imagine my relief when they finally took that last bastion of in-person awkwardness — dating — to my laptop instead. I’ve been using one of the major dating sites, OkCupid, on and off for about five years now. While it has its perks, being a woman on a dating site means immersing yourself in a disgusting cesspool of exposed nerves, unfiltered testosterone, and daily propositions to engage in sex acts so horrifying, I hadn’t even heard of them before, and I’m from the Internet.
I got the feeling that a lot of men on that site would message literally any woman who had a profile, but the optimist in me wanted to believe that there was a limit. Maybe there was a woman so awful, so toxic, so irredeemably unlikeable that no one would message her, or if they did, at least they would realize they never, ever wanted to meet her.
So I made the OkCupid profile of the Worst Woman on Earth, hoping to prove that there exists an online dating profile so loathsome that no man would message it. Advertisement The Profile In making this profile, I made sure my creation touched on every major facet of being truly horrible: I maintain that there is not a human on this planet who would read this profile and think, “Yes, I’d like to spend any amount of the fleeting time I’m given on my journey around the sun getting to know this person.
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Gender, relationships, feminism, manosphere. Quotes, without endorsing and with quite a bit of mocking, mean arguments by terrible people. Some analogical discussion of fatphobia, poorphobia, Islamophobia. He came from a really crappy family with a lot of problems, but he was trying really hard to make good. He was working two full-time minimum wage jobs, living off cheap noodles so he could save some money in the bank, trying to scrape a little bit of cash together.
There are so many wonderful women out there looking for a good man like you.
Comment icon Robbie Tripp, modern day man hero Credit: Something so positive and heartwarming that just one ‘like’ doesn’t seem to do it justice. This is not that story. This is the story of a man called Robbie Tripp , who has posted an open letter to his wife, Sarah, on Instagram. Robbie, who is 26 and an ‘entrepreneur’, shared a picture of the couple on the beach and, in words, told the world how much he loves Sarah’s curves.
Or as Robbie put it, her ‘thick thighs, big booty, cute little side roll, etc. Someone give him a pat on the back. This letter isn’t ‘cute’ or ‘adorable’.
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I tell all my single girlfriends to give online dating a try. You set up a profile, pick some cute photos, write something witty about the things that you love Beyonce, Hillary Clinton, Battlestar Galactica , list some books you like, and then sit back, kick your feet up, and wait for the messages to roll in. With those, you will send a few messages back and forth before he invites you for a drink. You will put on some mascara, plunge out into the snow, meet a stranger, and after an hour of slightly stilted conversation, he will grab the check.
You will try to split it, but he will pay, and you will stand to re-wrap yourself against the frigid wind.
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Participants in studies interpret “nice guy” to mean different things. In their qualitative analysis, Herold and Milhausen  found that women associate different qualities with the “nice guy” label: Some women, however, emphasized more negative aspects, considering the ‘nice guy’ to be boring, lacking confidence, and unattractive. They found that female attraction was a result of an interaction of both dominance and prosocial tendency. They suggest that altruism may be attractive to women when it is perceived as a form of agentic behavior.
Herold and Milhausen asked a sample of undergraduate women “You meet two men. One, John, is nice but somewhat shy. He has not had any sexual experience. The other, Mike, is attractive, a lot of fun, and has had intercourse with ten women. Both wish to date you. Whom do you choose? Urbaniak and Killman constructed vignettes of four hypothetical dating show contestants: In two studies, Urbaniak and Kilmann found that women claimed to prefer “Nice Todd” over “Neutral Todd” and “Jerk Todd”, relative to “Michael” even at differing levels of physical attractiveness.
They also found that for purely sexual relationships, “niceness appeared relatively less influential than physical attractiveness.
Dear ‘nice guys’, dating a ‘curvy’ woman does not make you a hero
Several gothic commentators pointed out that IKEA had managed to offend a group who actually like a lot of their products and were unhappy with IKEA perpetuating negative stereotypes of goths. Some of the Meth Project ads, which pointedly use frightening, extreme imagery to make their point, have a noted tendency to have some of the more problematic ads imply that meth addiction causes middle-class kids to become homeless and straight kids to turn gay, and that linking these things are designed to attach the shame and stigma of being gay or poor to being a meth addict.
The reality is that impoverished people and homosexuals already are the groups with the highest risk of meth addiction, particularly in the northern and midwestern United States. Supporters have pointed out that the poor and gay characters in the ads are depicting a realistic example, and it’s only the audience who assumes that they weren’t poor or gay to begin with, but most of them depict at least upper-middle-class teenagers, often girls, from good families, and the ads that reference male homosexuality depict it as predatory and abusive.
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